Not for the narrow minded
One of the most annoying thing in life is when people cannot or will not open up to the views of others, or the idea that someone can feel differently to what you think is the right way to respond.
The thing is with people is that none of us have shared the exact same experiences or lived the same style life because no matter how close you are to anyone be it family or friend your mind body and soul are different.
So why are people set on always thinking that they are right? Why can't people appreciate that others can feel a certain way and it may be due to a certain reason? Why is your view that the problem is small when someone elses is that it is big?
Of course ignorance is suffered by everyone in one way or another, humans are selfish to their own needs and their own views we think ourselves superior in opinion because what we believe, to us, is what Is.
The thing is it Is not. The complexity of the mind causes people to react in different ways to form different opinions, we are individuals. We are entitled to feel the way we feel.
Perhaps the question lies in how we portray our feelings? Is it always right to openly display them? or should there be a line to expressing ones opinions?
For me that is a tricky question because thoughts and feelings are so destructive that if you cross heads with someone that has a opposite view you are headed for a crash, and in that case should we refine our opinions? Or should we indulge in our emotions and thoughts and embody them? Which is humane? Which is moral?
You may not understand me but we have not the same mind.
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Life is like a coin. You can spend it any way you wish, but you only spend it once.
Lillian Dickson
We often forget that our time is not going to come back to us. We are complacent to the extent that we go through our every day life in a routine, which causes us to forget that our days will come to an end.
Our time is not infinite.
Life is not eternal, and the way we spend it is crucial to everything.
How we spend each second that passes defines so many things for the future.
The Domino effect.
If you think about life being like a domino effect wouldn't we all be trying to make the right move to get the smoothest transition through life.
Every move we make counts for something every minute that passes is a minute gone forever.
We make that choice of what we spend our time on ultimately we are defining the path ahead
Yet, each moment need not be calculated or thought through to be valuable.
Be thoughtless and carefree and accept for the future for what it is, and do not dwell on the choices you didn't make.
When life throws lemons, you can always make lemonade.
We often forget that our time is not going to come back to us. We are complacent to the extent that we go through our every day life in a routine, which causes us to forget that our days will come to an end.
Our time is not infinite.
Life is not eternal, and the way we spend it is crucial to everything.
How we spend each second that passes defines so many things for the future.
The Domino effect.
If you think about life being like a domino effect wouldn't we all be trying to make the right move to get the smoothest transition through life.
Every move we make counts for something every minute that passes is a minute gone forever.
We make that choice of what we spend our time on ultimately we are defining the path ahead
Yet, each moment need not be calculated or thought through to be valuable.
Be thoughtless and carefree and accept for the future for what it is, and do not dwell on the choices you didn't make.
When life throws lemons, you can always make lemonade.
Thursday, June 09, 2011
True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.
Life goes on and people move on.. along the way we make plenty of friends yet by the end only few will remain....
While we venture into different things and lead different lives we will lose many friends along the way. Why? Because we come to realise what we need and who we have time for, or who we will Make time for.
Moving in opposite directions and pursuing different things, should not break the friendships that are truly secure. Two people can lead different lives yet still with hold a friendship and when you know you are able to do so you know who have a true friendship.
While we venture into different things and lead different lives we will lose many friends along the way. Why? Because we come to realise what we need and who we have time for, or who we will Make time for.
Moving in opposite directions and pursuing different things, should not break the friendships that are truly secure. Two people can lead different lives yet still with hold a friendship and when you know you are able to do so you know who have a true friendship.
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