It’s easy to get caught up in one self these days, and being 'cool' and 'hard' is something so many of us spend so much time trying to be. But what is 'cool' and what are you trying to be exactly?
Why do we spend time trying to be what others tell us we should be? I never gave in to what everyone told me I should be. It’s just too wrong being everyone else, and not being you.
It really annoys me when I hear people talking about other people, by thinking they are somehow better then everyone because they have the image or are 'cool' 'popular' 'everyone knows me' and 'everyone wants to be me'.
Well I have news for those people. I don't. Being 'known' or being what you think is the 'fun' or 'swag' or 'cool' or 'hard' way to be is not what 'cool' or 'swag' to me. And living like you wish you were on The Only Way's Essex is not what we all envy.
Now, I'm not going to judge you for what you do, or who you are. Because you are entitled to live how wish... if that's how you want to live. But I'd appreciate people more if they did not assume superiority over others because they think they are 'It'.
Looks fade, reputations die, you remain, and the people that like you for you stay with you. Sometimes we have to leave the bubble of superficial and really understand who we are as people, and appreciate what the different people have to offer. Don't just stick to the group of people that 'look good'.
