Everyone deserves a chance

We've all met that person that gives off a vibe and a half. You automatically assume that they are not worth talking to, they'll annoy you, they'll be rude, or something along the lines of it just is not worth it.
But what makes you think you are right?
You don't like their face?
Reason much?
People said things, I heard things, I'm pretty sure
Heard it all before
In my own head lol.

But it's amazing how some people can prove us so wrong, judging others is inevitable but sometimes our judgement can be wrong, just the way other people can judge us wrongly. I think everyone deserves the chance to prove themselves to you, without anything else besides what they say and do to you being what counts. Open your eyes and Open your minds. At least you can't Say you tried even if they prove you right.

Be that person

I can’t speak for everyone, but I know that I love making people happy. It makes me happier than anything, than doing something that I know will make someone smile or saying something that makes someone laugh, brings light to my day.

No one goes through life being happy every second of the day and everyone has their own problems and pain, and being that person that helps someone, anyone, everyone feel even a little bit better about themselves makes everything better for everyone because the world is a sweeter place when people are smiling. And you can be that reason, why it is, be that person who makes someone’s day, say something nice do something nice and I promise you'll never regret it. Be the light you wish to see in the world.

Dont let anyone bring you down

Something I've seen a lot of recently is people knocking people down. So what if you are dreaming big!?

Your dreams are your dreams and that's what makes you, don't ever let it break you. Don't let people tell you that you cant do something that you Know you can do. Because You know Yourself better than anyone does.
And if anyone ever tries to tell you, that you can't do what You know you can and want to do, let it drive you and inspire you to meet and beat that dream. Because it can be done. And only you can make it so.

Never give up on happiness

That feeling like everything and everyone is against you, and nothing can go right can sometimes be over whelming and makes it so difficult to see any light at the end of the tunnel.

I know its cliche and I know it can be irritating when people are saying, things will get better and don't worry, it'll all work out, because all you want to say is No it Wont. and Stop telling me it Will.

 Life does that to us, it throws bricks and stones and bruises us. And we bleed. I know that pain, and I know that low. Thinking nothing and no one can do anything to make any of this better, because its me and life's just out to get me.
But it isn't and it isn't out to get you either, and I'm not saying that everything is going it be easy or we'll wake up and rainbows and butterflies will appear and every dark aspect of our lives will disappear , because that's not life. But I can say some way and some how you'll find happiness no matter what the situation and how low you go,  don't give up because the more open we are to finding happiness the easier it'll be to get to us. And it's out there for everyone some way through some door the light will get brighter. Just take the steps or in some cases take the push.

All you can do is hold on and be patient, because things will get better. :)

x

Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die tomorrow

Enjoy each moment for what it is, life is not a life if it's all work and no play. Enjoy what you work hard for, dream as if the world is yours, and live it as if it's ending tomorrow. Have no regrets and do everything you can to make your dreams come true.

If it's the last thing i say

Lasting impression, we are only as good as our last deed.
Sometimes anger gets in the way and we say things we don't mean or we say things we do mean and those things are mean. Do you get what i mean?

You see how many things can be interpreted the same word has different meanings, and things may be interpreted worse than you meant for them to be. Words can really hurt a person, and if we never amend the pain we inflict, we leave an everlasting suffering upon a person,

When a person is awful to you and you outburst in a rude way, you feel relieved, and you feel better but if you never put things right what you say will be the last portrayal of your character.
So do we won't the people who bring out the worsT in us to only know the worst of us? Or do we want to overcome our worst self and the worst of others and say the right thing, in the right way?

If it's the last thing i do good person or bad person i never want them to be left with a bad image of me as my worst person, for I'm only as good as my last deed. No one can be perfect but No one has to be bad.  I hope that a positive attitude and a kindness i can spread to my friend or foe will only be infectious and i hope in the distant memory of me people will only think of the courtesy and the poise i held myself in when the world was against me. And i hope we all can strive for the same destiny. For a world with people fighting to be better is a world that is growing to peace and harmony.

If it's the last thing I say I'd ask for us all to be forgiving and to be kind.

Silent gratitude isn't very much to anyone.

Gratitude is a beautiful things, its a simple way of letting people know that they and their efforts are appreciated, yet many of us fail to show our gratification.

Many people will sacrifice for our well being and do things to benefit us more then themselves. We are happy to except the courtesy and live by our preference but we fail to recognise that our gratitude should be displayed to reward the people around us for their selflessness.

I'm not saying people do nice things so that they can be thanked, but its nice to feel like what you do is appreciated.

So some reciprocation in effort and gratitude is not to much to ask because one day the people who sacrifice for us may not be here and we will only be left with the regret for not showing them how grateful we where.

Keeping gratitude to yourself is no benefit to anyone.

Do you understand?

Not for the narrow minded

One of the most annoying thing in life is when people cannot or will not open up to the views of others, or the idea that someone can feel differently to what you think is the right way to respond.

The thing is with people is that none of us have shared the exact same experiences or lived the same style life because no matter how close you are to anyone be it family or friend your mind body and soul are different.

So why are people set on always thinking that they are right? Why can't people appreciate that others can feel a certain way and it may be due to a certain reason? Why is your view that the problem is small when someone elses is that it is big?

Of course ignorance is suffered by everyone in one way or another, humans are selfish to their own needs and their own views we think ourselves superior in opinion because what we believe, to us, is what Is.

The thing is it Is not. The complexity of the mind causes people to react in different ways to form different opinions, we are individuals. We are entitled to feel the way we feel.

Perhaps the question lies in how we portray our feelings? Is it always right to openly display them? or should there be a line to expressing ones opinions?

For me that is a tricky question because thoughts and feelings are so destructive that if you cross heads with someone that has a opposite view you are headed for a crash, and in that case should we refine our opinions? Or should we indulge in our emotions and thoughts and embody them? Which is humane? Which is moral?

You may not understand me but we have not the same mind.

Life is like a coin. You can spend it any way you wish, but you only spend it once.

Lillian Dickson
We often forget that our time is not going to come back to us. We are complacent to the extent that we go through our every day life in a routine, which causes us to forget that our days will come to an end.

Our time is not infinite. 
Life is not eternal, and the way we spend it is crucial to everything.

How we spend each second that passes defines so many things for the future.
The Domino effect.

If you think about life being like a domino effect wouldn't we all be trying to make the right move to get the smoothest transition through life.

Every move we make counts for something every minute that passes is a minute gone forever.

We make that choice of what we spend our time on ultimately we are defining the path ahead

Yet, each moment need not be calculated or thought through to be valuable.

Be thoughtless and carefree and accept for the future for what it is, and do not dwell on the choices you didn't make.

When life throws lemons, you can always make lemonade.  

True friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.

Life goes on and people move on.. along the way we make plenty of friends yet by the end only few will remain....
While we venture into different things and lead different lives we will lose many friends along the way. Why? Because we come to realise what we need and who we have time for, or who we will Make time for.

Moving in opposite directions and pursuing different things, should not break the friendships that are truly secure. Two people can lead different lives yet still with hold a friendship and when you know you are able to do so you know who have a true friendship.

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Just want to say thank you to everyone reading this and taking the time. 1000 isn't the largest number but its a heck of a lot to me so thanks for the support and i'll keep posts coming x

Dear reader,

Sorry i have not updated in a while! need to keep up with the posts. Will be thinking up some ideas in my mind things that have been bugging me and spill it out for you to read. Just need to get past some writers block first. Thanks for waiting.

Be patient

xxo

A friend in need, Be a friend indeed

Cheesy right? ok ok, but it has some good meaning...

Being a friend is not always about being funny and bubbly it's also about being there.
Everyone has their own difficulties in life, even if they do not show it. We know nothing of what goes on behind closed doors.

There comes times when the people around us need someone to help hold the weight of the trouble they carry, big or small. And the friend that's there able and willing to carry the trouble of their friends and their own. Is a friend indeed.

Don't leave that person in need, they may be the only one there when you need someone.

Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.

Although we do not always realise the actions we make affect others.
I always feel like what I do and say will affect the mood of my friends, so I try to be cheer full so that everyone feels happy. I try to be supportive so everyone feels motivated, and I try to be kind so everyone feels cared for.

I know I make a difference by ever smile I get when I make a silly joke and I know it's not the biggest thing, but I know it matters.

And you should know you matter too, you matter to the people around you and the things you do affect your friends and family. Being happy is infectious, and you want to be the one that spreads that virus because it's one no one wants cured.
Although sadness cannot always be helped or prevented, so be that person that makes that sad person happy and make a difference because that difference could be small to you and so large to them.

When you cry I cry and when you smile I smile.

Dont stop believing

Life can be really shit sometimes, we go through things that really hurt us and stress us out.
And we feel like giving up.
We think we can’t live anymore
Or be anymore

But we can.

Life comes with its own set of Terms and Conditions and like most, we tick agree without reading it. But the reality is life will test us. We'll lose things and people, our hearts will break, we will cry till our eyes are dry and feel empty inside. But we can’t stop believing. When you stop believing you prevent yourself from exceeding.
Don't be your own worst enemy, and stop yourself from moving on, because you deserve happiness... You just have to find it.

God only tests the ones he knows can cope.

Don't Fail the test... Don't stop believing

I wont always make sense to you

I'm not everyones cup of tea, i just hope for someone i'm the right mix of sugar, milk and tea bag : )

If you dont like me and what i write dont come back, i will not know if you dont. If you do than please support me in my messages and my own growth, as a linguist, as a guider, and most importantly as a person.

You are your own man

Dont let anyone defy who you are, dont be dependent on others to justify who you are, you are your own man..

We are born alone, we will die alone, the point of stories is the journey from the begging to the end. The begining and end of humanity is always certain, the journeys are what differ. Yes we can overlap journies with others, but we are always going on our own journey. No matter what your life involves you will always be going through it alone. No other man can hear your thoughts, no other man can feel your feelings, so why do we let others defy us? why do we rely on others to make us who we are? friends and family help us grow as people to become who we become, and love and care is a beautifull thing. But indulgence and reliance can hinder ones progress with themselves. To be happy and to be comfortable you must first be happy with yourself, you must first be happy alone

A little bit of faith goes a long way

Belief is a strong motive

It can be hard to believe your capable of something, and it's not instantaneous for us to believe in other people either. But belief is a strong power, faith is a incling of hope, confidence and trust.
When you don't believe your capable of something even the slightest, you cant ever strive with the right energy to achieve anything. If we always assume things are out of reach, how will we stretch ourselves? how will we grow?

I have realised recently that not believing in myself and my abilities has stopped me from progressing, the lack of confidence was what made me incapable.

Then someone gave me hope, and invested their own belief in me.. and i was inspired to prove them right, make them proud, and i did. The belief and trust you can give to someone can make a difference, we should encourage our friends peers and colleges to aspire and inspire because many are only lacking the confidence.

Once you are given the belief and you cease that faith in you, you have faith in yourself. And when you believe you can achieve; you can do anything..

God gives every bird its food, but He does not throw it into its nest

J.G. Holland

Unfortunately many of us are not born with a silver spoon, and those of us who are cannot expect everything they want to be simply handed to them all of the time.

When you want something you have to get it, and when you need something you have to work for it. Life isn't a walk through the park, there are bridges we have to build rivers we must surpass and oceans we will have to swim through. But if we want what’s at the end of the journey, we have to put in the effort and fight to finish the marathon.


If you want a first class degree, if you want to lose weight, if you want a happy home, a fulfilling job or good relationships there is one thing that will always be required- that is effort.

Effort is what we must give in order to achieve what we want.

Anything is achievable, but not everything is easy. 

Birds must make the effort to find their food.

And we must make the effort to attain what we are looking for

x

Attitudes are contagious. Are yours worth catching?

-Dennis and Wendy Mannering

We don't always realise it, but the things we do affect the people around us.
I'm sure we all get the sense of it, when you are around happy people you tend to feel happier.. and when you are around glum people you tend to feel more glum.

Allot of our attitude are not great to have, ignorance, rudeness, the lack of care, impresses upon the people around you. They say; whoever they may be that We take a small part of everyone we meet in life with us. And whether we like it or not the attitued we portray will influence someone and will make a difference.

Its not always a bad thing, sometimes positive attitured, helpfullness, kindness, energy it can all bring something great to the people around us. But as good lives so does bad, and negative attituteds can affect people also.

So when we wake up in the morning and go into envoronments where we know we make a difference, we must contemplate whether our behaviour is one worthy of catching on ?

Dont change yourself for the satisfaction of others

We don't always be accepted by those around us, there will always be someone who dislikes you. There will always be something about you that annoys others. Its a matter of life.

No one is perfect, and no one can be. Sure we can strive and do our hardest to be the best person we can be, and I encourage that whole heartily, but do so with the intention of changing for your own benefit as well as others.

If you find happiness in who you are, and you aren't hurting anyone, you should embrace your individuality. Even if others don't appreciate it. In order for someone to be popular many others will have to be unpopular. Don't change your self Marley to satisfy others.

Love yourself and be your own best friend, be happy with who you are and others will follow. Don't be a product of someone Else's desire, be the plants of your own seeds.

Be passionate about what you do in life

'Let me get straight to the point yeah'

Blogging is not for everyone, but it is for me... why so? Because I have a passion for writing and expression. Not everyone will; and that’s fine. But if you don’t have the passion and motivation to do something you can never achieve what you want.

Don’t just do things for the sake of doing things, you should love what you do, and enjoy it, because if you don’t you are just wasting moments of your time.

I should know!

Speaking from someone who lacks motivation in many senses, I moan indifferently about things, yes I am lazy and I don’t appreciate reading much further than my texts messages, and so I have got nowhere with my literature texts. Yet with what I enjoy I find time to exceed in.

And be reassured you don’t have to be good at what you do, if you have the passion you will take more from it. Don’t be put off by obstacles and difficulties if you want something grab it with both hands and do the best you can. No grade or achievement can determine your happiness, there is no guarantee a 1st class degree will make you happy. Only you can determine what makes you happy. . If you enjoy what you do regardless you’re guaranteed a smile on your face.

:)