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Just want to say thank you to everyone reading this and taking the time. 1000 isn't the largest number but its a heck of a lot to me so thanks for the support and i'll keep posts coming x

Dear reader,

Sorry i have not updated in a while! need to keep up with the posts. Will be thinking up some ideas in my mind things that have been bugging me and spill it out for you to read. Just need to get past some writers block first. Thanks for waiting.

Be patient

xxo

A friend in need, Be a friend indeed

Cheesy right? ok ok, but it has some good meaning...

Being a friend is not always about being funny and bubbly it's also about being there.
Everyone has their own difficulties in life, even if they do not show it. We know nothing of what goes on behind closed doors.

There comes times when the people around us need someone to help hold the weight of the trouble they carry, big or small. And the friend that's there able and willing to carry the trouble of their friends and their own. Is a friend indeed.

Don't leave that person in need, they may be the only one there when you need someone.

Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.

Although we do not always realise the actions we make affect others.
I always feel like what I do and say will affect the mood of my friends, so I try to be cheer full so that everyone feels happy. I try to be supportive so everyone feels motivated, and I try to be kind so everyone feels cared for.

I know I make a difference by ever smile I get when I make a silly joke and I know it's not the biggest thing, but I know it matters.

And you should know you matter too, you matter to the people around you and the things you do affect your friends and family. Being happy is infectious, and you want to be the one that spreads that virus because it's one no one wants cured.
Although sadness cannot always be helped or prevented, so be that person that makes that sad person happy and make a difference because that difference could be small to you and so large to them.

When you cry I cry and when you smile I smile.

Dont stop believing

Life can be really shit sometimes, we go through things that really hurt us and stress us out.
And we feel like giving up.
We think we can’t live anymore
Or be anymore

But we can.

Life comes with its own set of Terms and Conditions and like most, we tick agree without reading it. But the reality is life will test us. We'll lose things and people, our hearts will break, we will cry till our eyes are dry and feel empty inside. But we can’t stop believing. When you stop believing you prevent yourself from exceeding.
Don't be your own worst enemy, and stop yourself from moving on, because you deserve happiness... You just have to find it.

God only tests the ones he knows can cope.

Don't Fail the test... Don't stop believing

I wont always make sense to you

I'm not everyones cup of tea, i just hope for someone i'm the right mix of sugar, milk and tea bag : )

If you dont like me and what i write dont come back, i will not know if you dont. If you do than please support me in my messages and my own growth, as a linguist, as a guider, and most importantly as a person.

You are your own man

Dont let anyone defy who you are, dont be dependent on others to justify who you are, you are your own man..

We are born alone, we will die alone, the point of stories is the journey from the begging to the end. The begining and end of humanity is always certain, the journeys are what differ. Yes we can overlap journies with others, but we are always going on our own journey. No matter what your life involves you will always be going through it alone. No other man can hear your thoughts, no other man can feel your feelings, so why do we let others defy us? why do we rely on others to make us who we are? friends and family help us grow as people to become who we become, and love and care is a beautifull thing. But indulgence and reliance can hinder ones progress with themselves. To be happy and to be comfortable you must first be happy with yourself, you must first be happy alone

A little bit of faith goes a long way

Belief is a strong motive

It can be hard to believe your capable of something, and it's not instantaneous for us to believe in other people either. But belief is a strong power, faith is a incling of hope, confidence and trust.
When you don't believe your capable of something even the slightest, you cant ever strive with the right energy to achieve anything. If we always assume things are out of reach, how will we stretch ourselves? how will we grow?

I have realised recently that not believing in myself and my abilities has stopped me from progressing, the lack of confidence was what made me incapable.

Then someone gave me hope, and invested their own belief in me.. and i was inspired to prove them right, make them proud, and i did. The belief and trust you can give to someone can make a difference, we should encourage our friends peers and colleges to aspire and inspire because many are only lacking the confidence.

Once you are given the belief and you cease that faith in you, you have faith in yourself. And when you believe you can achieve; you can do anything..

God gives every bird its food, but He does not throw it into its nest

J.G. Holland

Unfortunately many of us are not born with a silver spoon, and those of us who are cannot expect everything they want to be simply handed to them all of the time.

When you want something you have to get it, and when you need something you have to work for it. Life isn't a walk through the park, there are bridges we have to build rivers we must surpass and oceans we will have to swim through. But if we want what’s at the end of the journey, we have to put in the effort and fight to finish the marathon.


If you want a first class degree, if you want to lose weight, if you want a happy home, a fulfilling job or good relationships there is one thing that will always be required- that is effort.

Effort is what we must give in order to achieve what we want.

Anything is achievable, but not everything is easy. 

Birds must make the effort to find their food.

And we must make the effort to attain what we are looking for

x

Attitudes are contagious. Are yours worth catching?

-Dennis and Wendy Mannering

We don't always realise it, but the things we do affect the people around us.
I'm sure we all get the sense of it, when you are around happy people you tend to feel happier.. and when you are around glum people you tend to feel more glum.

Allot of our attitude are not great to have, ignorance, rudeness, the lack of care, impresses upon the people around you. They say; whoever they may be that We take a small part of everyone we meet in life with us. And whether we like it or not the attitued we portray will influence someone and will make a difference.

Its not always a bad thing, sometimes positive attitured, helpfullness, kindness, energy it can all bring something great to the people around us. But as good lives so does bad, and negative attituteds can affect people also.

So when we wake up in the morning and go into envoronments where we know we make a difference, we must contemplate whether our behaviour is one worthy of catching on ?

Dont change yourself for the satisfaction of others

We don't always be accepted by those around us, there will always be someone who dislikes you. There will always be something about you that annoys others. Its a matter of life.

No one is perfect, and no one can be. Sure we can strive and do our hardest to be the best person we can be, and I encourage that whole heartily, but do so with the intention of changing for your own benefit as well as others.

If you find happiness in who you are, and you aren't hurting anyone, you should embrace your individuality. Even if others don't appreciate it. In order for someone to be popular many others will have to be unpopular. Don't change your self Marley to satisfy others.

Love yourself and be your own best friend, be happy with who you are and others will follow. Don't be a product of someone Else's desire, be the plants of your own seeds.

Be passionate about what you do in life

'Let me get straight to the point yeah'

Blogging is not for everyone, but it is for me... why so? Because I have a passion for writing and expression. Not everyone will; and that’s fine. But if you don’t have the passion and motivation to do something you can never achieve what you want.

Don’t just do things for the sake of doing things, you should love what you do, and enjoy it, because if you don’t you are just wasting moments of your time.

I should know!

Speaking from someone who lacks motivation in many senses, I moan indifferently about things, yes I am lazy and I don’t appreciate reading much further than my texts messages, and so I have got nowhere with my literature texts. Yet with what I enjoy I find time to exceed in.

And be reassured you don’t have to be good at what you do, if you have the passion you will take more from it. Don’t be put off by obstacles and difficulties if you want something grab it with both hands and do the best you can. No grade or achievement can determine your happiness, there is no guarantee a 1st class degree will make you happy. Only you can determine what makes you happy. . If you enjoy what you do regardless you’re guaranteed a smile on your face.

:)

Think before you speak

It’s like a shock to the system, when you hear someone say something so out of order, you just think do you even realise what you're saying? We are all prone to mistakes, its human nature, but in some cases people are just ignorant to right and wrong.

 What comes out of your mouth has an impact on those who are listening, words are powerfull. We can do a lot of things merely on the words we say, speech and writing gives humans the power to persuade, advice and pass on information. You can reveal inner thoughts with the words you speak. Your words count for something, after all world elections are won and lost on the communication between people.

When someone is in need of comfort and companionship, your words can be like a helping hand to people, cloaking their fears. When people are down your words can give them the strength to smile and laugh through humour and appreciation. But your words can also be like bullets to a heart, when not thought through. Don't be ignorant to other people’s feelings, and the next time you chose to use your power; think, and use it wisely.

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