Advice

I guess you could say the entirety of my blog is based on advice, inspiration, motivation. I want to encourage people to do something positive with their lives, to try and be someone better then they were yesterday. Or to think deeper and feel sincerely.

I like to think I offer advise to some in need.

But I am no master, I know no answers . I don't even take my own advice sometimes. I deliberate, I over think and calculate my response to life. More often then not I face a challenge and walk away simply because I am to afraid to fail it.

I don't take my own advice. And I question why you should to?

I encourage everyone to think for themselves and form their own opinion to be their own mind. That doesn't mean I am right in any way. Do not simply form an opinion based on mine, after all I don't even believe in my own thoughts at times.

But do think into your own mind and find your own beliefs, be more than who you are already and lead a life filled with advice you can give yourself. Because only you know yourself that well.
You are what you make yourself.

We live alone

We never really know the truth behind a persons smile. We never really know the depth of someone's pain. We can never truly identify the happy and the unhappy from what we see. We can never even do so from what we hear.

The world in which we live we live alone. There are things we think we know, and there is the unknown.

I don't doubt the individual pain we feel that we may not express. I commend the smiles we surface through the distresses of our day. I admire the bravery we adhere to when we chose to face our troubles alone.

I believe in the people we are and that our lives will remain unknown.

What I live, is not what you think you see. What you live is not what I think I see.

Everything happens for a reason

It's easy to dream of a world in which we achieve everything we want. It's also easy for the dream to not occur. But that doesn't mean it wasn't for the better. I'm a firm believer in everything happens for a reason, I guess it's partly my faith that leads me to believe that there's a bigger plan a bigger picture that actions are Fate and something's have to happen and something's just can’t happen. People walk into our lives for a reason, to serve a purpose. Love or hate them, be it a good or a bad reaction to those who come in to our focus, they're here for a reason. And we are here to learn from the presence of those around us. People come to help you through difficult times, to teach you knew things or to be an example. They may help you to learn that their way is the wrong way, but nevertheless there was a reason.

And if we do not get the things we thought we would in life it may be to let You find something better For you.

Things happen for a purpose and just live it, try to love it or at least learn from it.

The power of words

Words are a powerfull tool. Infact if I were to say otherwise it would totally contradict the relevence of my blog.

Words are intricate and adaptable, they can be used in situations to motivate and provide solace for others. We use words to express our thoughts and feelings. We use words to communicate.

But do we just use words? Or are we also acting upon them?

Words hold less of a significance when they are not backed up with actions. It is easy to say things, it is not as easy to do things.

My question is, do the meaning of your words hold the same meaning without acting upon them?
To say you care for, love or will be there for an individual, do you act upon your words? Or are they just words?
Words can be said in the moment, with the littlest effort. Actions however, prevail.
In a world of cyber connections, we intereact through words more than physical actions or presence. But how far can words take us? If we do not act upon them.

Hope is sensitive

It's hard to fight our emotional connections with situations and people. Thoughts can be prevented through distraction and procrastination but emotions are existent and merely suppressed or expressed. More often than not I find myself hoping for something although my mind tells me not to. It's hard to prevent yourself from wanting what you desire. But the hope and faith we have is sensitive to failure. It's not an expectation it’s your heart telling you what it really wants. And when what we hope for fails to occur, that is the hurt that is suffered. Whether it is the failure of achievement or the breakdown in relationships. We all hope for something and when it does not occur we feel it. Our hopes are sensitive and our hearts are very much involved.

Overcoming mistakes

Justifying our mistakes to make ourselves feel better about what we've done, isn't the right way to prevent ourselves from
Making that mistake again. The nature of personality causes many of us to be stubborn and hard headed we often see one side to our situation, naive as we are we hate to be told we are wrong and we hate to accept that we have made a mistake. We want to be right and we will attempt to make it so. But having the courage to admit you are wrong is the groundings of maturity and fortitude. The ability to recognise ones mistakes and strive to overcome them and work for a better future is the road worth being on. Be open minded be aware and be fulfilled.

I'm happy being different :-)

In a society where popularity and image is everything. I think a lot of the time when people look at me they expect me to be something like everyone else. Then I talk... And what be known I'm not.
It’s easy to get caught up in one self these days, and being 'cool' and 'hard' is something so many of us spend so  much time trying to be. But what is 'cool' and what are you trying to be exactly?

Why do we spend time trying to be what others tell us we should be? I never gave in to what everyone told me I should be. It’s just too wrong being everyone else, and not being you.
It really annoys me when I hear people talking about other people, by thinking they are somehow better then everyone because they have the image or are 'cool' 'popular' 'everyone knows me' and 'everyone wants to be me'.

Well I have news for those people. I don't. Being 'known' or being what you think is the 'fun' or 'swag' or 'cool' or 'hard' way to be is not what 'cool' or 'swag' to me. And living like you wish you were on The Only Way's Essex is not what we all envy.
Now, I'm not going to judge you for what you do, or who you are. Because you are entitled to live how wish... if that's how you want to live. But I'd appreciate people more if they did not assume superiority over others because they think they are 'It'.
Looks fade, reputations die, you remain, and the people that like you for you stay with you. Sometimes we have to leave the bubble of superficial and really understand who we are as people, and appreciate what the different people have to offer. Don't just stick to the group of people that 'look good'.

To that person who wants to take on the world :)

I never told my friend I was going to write this post about her, and she probably never expected me to ever take to the stage and do so. But I used to write about the people in my life that inspire me to be who I am, and those that live in a way that should inspire others. It’s often hard to put a character into words, and I think for this person I will find it hard to describe the sheer enthusiasm and power this character has.

I have never met a person so willing and encouraging, and so ready to take on the world. She comes with many quirks I assure you but her belief is so inspiring I wish I could bottle it and show it to every person that walks past. My amazing friend UJ :) this is for you...

It amazes me the way I get the random messages from you and the way you come up to me telling me how you want to be the next Internet phenomenon and start something that takes the world by storm. The faith you have is inspiring and it honestly makes me want to take the world on with you. I've never met anyone so determined to make something of them, and you've proved too many of us that you are more than capable of creating a society or two :)

Besides your sensational faith in yourself... I completely adore your faith in others.. I know I once told you I wish that I have a child like you that is because the true love you have for other people is beautiful for me. I've had many friends encourage me to do things and be things, but I have to be honest and say no one has ever made me feel as encouraged as you have. You seem to see something in people that most people miss, and I know even with few words said, you have an understanding and faith in me that makes me want to be everything you think I can be. So thank you for having a faith in me, and believing I can do things I didn't think I could do. Thank You for helping me find myself. And thank you for being You.

And don't forget me when you take on the world :) and win... or better yet Lets not forget to take on the world together.

Much love :) xxxxx

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I know I haven't blogged in a very long time and I am really sorry for that, because I have noted I have now hit over 2000 hits. So I am very grate full for those of you that regularly check this and indulge in the words I splurge when I am on rant. I know most of my readers are from the U.S. and Germany and it amazes me that the things I say can reach people from across the world, and actually matter or mean something to you. I guess it proves that words have power and influence that no one can put true value to. Words are permanent and the Internet makes it infinite. For many years to come everything I've written will stay encapsulated on this one html coding that preserves that moment in time I  was inspired and I'll forever be able to return to who I was at that time and what I was thinking. Its beautifull the way in which technology has helped us to improve and find who we are. I know when I first began this blog  I was on a mission. ANTIFACEBOOKISM. and I am still very much anti facebook.. but I think blogging has helped me become more than just that girl that hates facebook, although have I been recommended by various anti facebook threads. LOL. I'm happy just to inspire, if I can inspire one person I'm happy. making a difference in the world these days is hard, because many of us are set in stone with opinions, and why wouldn't we be? To an opinion we are entitled. But having the ability to change an opinion or to even get someone to think. I am grateful for. And Thank You to the Internet for allowing the world to be intertwined in this way.

P.S. I am sorry for the irrelevance of this post I just felt like writing to you all :)