Ok so today's real topic is anger, anything I got to say about it..
When we are angry we say things we don't mean, it's an impulse, you can say you hate someone , or you never want to see them again, most likely we don't mean it. We're just so angry in that moment we say things. Things we think we feel, things we know will hurt someone as much as you are hurt in that moment. Things you don't even realise you're saying
Three things that cant be changed, the stone after its thrown, the word after its said, the time after its gone.
You cant take back the things you say or do, but you can apologies.
Remorse to me is the strongest influence, most of us know when someone means what they say and when someone is sorry for what they've done. And when you know you're wrong being stubborn just isn't the way forward, you cant regain that time. You can however apologies. There's no shame in admitting you're wrong if it enables you to move forward.
However I do pity those who spend there lives wishing they were right and never admitting they are wrong.
